friendly reminder: Ellen Page didn’t come out as “queer”. She came out as gay.
also friendly reminder: Chelsea Manning never came out as a “trans woman”. She came out as a woman.
I could also do without the coy, twee ways supposed progressive and/or supposed “queer” people often refer to anything LGBT, designed to smugly draw attention to the LGBT bit. It reminds me of “it’s not just a relationship - it’s a Marks and Spencers relationship”.
It’s all fetishisation, not acceptance - one blink away from outright homophobia.